What happens when things go bad? What do you do when your day goes sideways and your control crumbles? And that’s what it’s all about, isn’t it? When I’m traveling, I feel the most comfortable when I feel like I am in control.
On a sudden, chaos strolls in and starts naming names.
You reach for your wallet, gone.
The hotel clerk can’t find your reservation.
Open up your suitcase. The contents are covered in shampoo.
Three policemen step onto your train and start questioning foreigners, that’s you.
You have to “go” but apparently all of Europe does not believe in the public restroom.
You run to your gate to find your flight has left without you. We did. And it had. There we sat, hoping we could get onto another flight. Our control was completely gone.
But as we sat there sulking, a small crowd ran up to a different gate. They too had missed a flight. The airline agents had left by now, and I could see the plane taxiing down the runway. One guy screamed for assistance. Others just stomped around; mouths agape. One man jumped behind the counter and started banging on the jet-bridge door. Several airline agents soon arrived and a shouting match ensued. Somebody threatened to call the police. Another swore loudly, frequently, pointing a finger into the agent’s face.
No bad day justifies that kind of bad behavior.
Travel does go sideways.
Because life and the human experience does not stop when you travel. If anything, travel is a portrait of life. The good is often very good. But the bad things will come. The traveler (truly any human being) can learn to be comfortable in the chaos.
Chaos is the teacher. And giving up without learning from it is a waste. For, it resets our expectations and makes us grateful—regardless of who we think is in control.
anthony forrest